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A model had the best response after a man posted about his 'curvy' wife: 'Stop giving men trophies'

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  • Model Tess Holliday slammed a post by a man who bragged about loving his wife and her "curvy" body. 
  • She pointed out that people who identify as men are often patted on the back for simple things. 
  • She also slammed the man for his past transphobic comments that he apparently tweeted. 


The internet has been having a field day ripping author and activist Robbie Tripp a new one after he posted an Instagram post about his wife's "curvy" body. Now, model and body positivity activist Tess Holliday is joining the conversation, and she is not here for Tripp's self-congratulatory post either.

Tripp posted an Instagram post last week praising his "curvy" wife and calling on other men to assess how they treat women based on their body type, saying that many would call his wife "chubby." Tripp said he was teased for liking "curvy" women, and wanted to send a message to women that they will find a man who appreciates them no matter what they look like.

Holliday posted an Instagram of her own to slam Tripp's post, sharing a screenshot of a tweet by a Twitter user named #trishy. 

"*guy likes curvy woman* 16,667 favs, national news *curvy woman likes herself* 12 favs, 48 people in your mentions talking about diabetes," the tweet said. 

"This is so real," Holliday captioned the post. "Stop giving men trophies for doing the bare minimum. Also I'm not here for someone who says transphobic things."

Her post echoes the biggest critique many had of Tripp's Instagram message: that he shouldn't get a cookie for loving his wife even if she's "curvy."

|| I love this woman and her curvy body. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to girls on the thicker side, ones who were shorter and curvier, girls that the average (basic) bro might refer to as "chubby" or even "fat." Then, as I became a man and started to educate myself on issues such as feminism and how the media marginalizes women by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of beauty (thin, tall, lean) I realized how many men have bought into that lie. For me, there is nothing sexier than this woman right here: thick thighs, big booty, cute little side roll, etc. Her shape and size won't be the one featured on the cover of Cosmopolitan but it's the one featured in my life and in my heart. There's nothing sexier to me than a woman who is both curvy and confident; this gorgeous girl I married fills out every inch of her jeans and is still the most beautiful one in the room. Guys, rethink what society has told you that you should desire. A real woman is not a porn star or a bikini mannequin or a movie character. She's real. She has beautiful stretch marks on her hips and cute little dimples on her booty. Girls, don't ever fool yourself by thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be loved and appreciated. There is a guy out there who is going to celebrate you for exactly who you are, someone who will love you like I love my Sarah. || photo cred: @kaileehjudd

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While Tripp's post originally went viral in a positive light, body positive activists and many others online took issue with the self-congratulatory nature of Tripp's post. It has since become a running Twitter joke with the caption "my curvy wife."

 

 

Holliday's post also addresses past tweets allegedly posted by Tripp, in which he made transphobic comments about Caitlyn Jenner. The tweet now appears to be deleted.

"Born a Bruce, always a Bruce. Clothes, make-up, surgery, and public acceptance still won't change how you came into this world,” the tweet said.

Tripp hasn't directly addressed the controversy surrounding his comments, but thanked his fans for their support and positivity in an Instagram post. 

"Thank you to each and every one of you who has messaged us with your heartfelt stories and encouraging positivity," he wrote. "What started as a simple declaration of adoration for @sassyredlipstick has turned into something so much bigger and we couldn't be more grateful for it. Nothing but love and positivity over here! Be sure to stay tuned to our IG Stories to continue on this journey with us!"

Though it's great that Tripp's wife, Sarah Tripp, seems to have appreciated the post about her, it seems that he could learn a lot from Holliday and other body positive activists if he really wants to educate himself on feminism and the marginalization of women as much as he said he did his original post

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