21st century relationships are a minefield.
While you're already worrying about building a successful and genuine connection with someone you care about, you also have to maneuver past modern — and often cruel — dating trends such as ghosting and benching.
But not every relationship is destined to fail.
In an attempt to prove that love can prosper even in the modern day, Business Insider staff asked their parents for their number one piece of relationship advice — because who are you more likely to turn to in the throes of heartbreak than mum and dad?
The resulting advice — collated from parents that are married, in long-term relationships, and divorced — all seemed to fall into five categories: listening, being kind, understanding your self-worth, spending time together, and nurturing your connection.
Scroll on to discover the 13 pieces of crucial relationship advice we learned from our parents:
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Respect each other's space — and talk about things that matter.
Mandy, who has been married for 24 years, said: "Give each other space to be who you are and always try to talk about the stuff that matters — your hopes, dreams, and worries — not just the day-to-day things."
Never hide your emotions — and listen to your partner's.
"Always, always talk openly with your partner and be a good listener," said Lucy, who is divorced.
"Never hide emotions or bury what irritates or upsets you and why. You'll understand each other better if you talk honestly. Honest and open conversation builds trust and strengthens love."
Don't let animosity dwell.
"Never go to bed on an argument," said Andrea, who has been with her husband for 32 years.
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