The act of sex may be a normal conversation piece nowadays, but one thing that people tend to still play coy about is the topic of good sex. That may be because we’re not too sure what is technically considered "good sex" and furthermore, how to know when we're delivering it.
Bethany Ricciardi, sex expert for TooTimid, and Kevin Darné, founder of LoverAlert911.com, both confirmed to INSIDER, however, that there are indeed a few ways to put your mind at ease when it comes to knowing your status in the sack.
What happens though, if your previous partners or current partner is shy? How will you know if you’ve got the memorable moves that will always get your lover in the groove?
Here are some surefire signs that prove you have what it takes to provide pleasure in the bedroom.
Simply put, you love sex.
Everyone may have their own depictions of what good sex is, but according to Darné, a simple indicator to knowing that you’re good in bed is how much you love sex.
"You are always keeping an eye out for new and different ways to rock your mate’s world as well as enhance your own experience," he told INSIDER. "This may entail reading books, magazine articles, blogs, watching videos, or utilizing toys. You enjoy having spontaneous sex and surprises. Simply put, you want to be the best and take pride in being skillful."
Anyone who loves what they are doing is usually good at it and sex is no different.
You're open-minded and switch things up.
Ricciardi said that switching up the sex positions and never skipping foreplay can also be signs that you’re good in bed.
"I think many would agree foreplay is one of the best parts and no one wants to sleep with someone who has a routine," she told INSIDER.
You're confident in yourself.
It's often been said that confidence will take you a long way in life, and according to Ricciardi, that is also inclusive of your sex life.
"Having confidence could include you leaving the lights on, going completely nude (or wearing something super sexy)," she said. "You take control of the situation ... You're vocal; you're enthusiastic! You feel them desiring you!"
Confidence in the bedroom can turn your partner on even more because they know you aren't afraid to display your sexuality when with them.
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