9 facts about relationships you need to know before getting married
Although fewer young people are getting married today than ever before, research suggests that getting and staying married is one of the best things you can do for yourself.As the New York Times...
View ArticleLove may last forever — but that 'being in love' feeling has an expiration date
Dr. Helen Fisher is a biological anthropologist and author of "Why Him? Why Her?: Love By Understanding Your Personality Type". She told us how long the initial euphoria of falling in love lasts, and...
View ArticleHere's the best way to make friends when you're a grown-up
When I moved to New York three years ago I knew about six people.One from my hometown, a few from school, and a few more from when I was living abroad. So, as a contemplative weirdo tends to do, I...
View ArticleStudy gives science-based online dating tips
The dating world can be a grind. So researchers at Queen Mary University in London decided they would use an “evidence-based approach” to help you convert your online dating candidates into IRL...
View Article6 simple tips for making a great first impression
LinkedIn Influencer Bernard Marr published this post originally on LinkedIn.I'm sure you've heard it before that it only takes six seconds for someone to form a first impression. So how can you use...
View ArticleThe 4 most common relationship problems — and how to fix them
Relationship problems. Everybody has them. And sometimes you have them over and over and over.Most of the people giving advice don't know the research. So where are the real answers?I decided to call...
View Article15 ways to become a better person
"Make the most of yourself....for that is all there is of you." —Ralph Waldo EmersonWe've all made mistakes throughout our lives that haven't exactly put us in the best light — like bullying someone in...
View Article10 behaviors of genuine people
Whether you're building a business, a network, or friendships, you always want to look for people who are genuine.After all, nobody wants to work or hang out with a phony. On the flipside, that goes...
View ArticleAnthropologist reveals the top 5 traits single Americans are looking for in a...
Dr. Helen Fisher, a Senior Fellow with the Kinsey Institute, discusses her latest insights on singles in America based on a study she conducted with Match.com.Produced by Alana KakoyiannisFollow BI...
View ArticleA couples therapist explains the 4 relationship killers that end marriages
In the US, between 40% and 50% of marriages in end divorce. While people break up for lots of reasons, some behaviors are more destructive than others. Peter Pearson, the cofounder of the Couples...
View ArticleThe 10 most common adult fantasies
This Saturday is not just Valentine's Day — it's also opening night for "Fifty Shades of Grey."The film is based on the titillating book published in 2011 that attracted over 100 million readers, many...
View ArticlePsychologists say that power does 4 crazy things to your mind
Who doesn't desire power?There's a little Frank Underwood in all of us.At the beginning of "House of Cards,"Kevin Spacey's character explains why power beats moneyMoney is the McMansion in Sarasota...
View Article3 surprising ways to become a better boss
All business owners want to be good bosses. But, the road between desire and reality is not easy to traverse. Not everybody can be a good boss and far fewer become truly successful bosses.As somebody...
View ArticleHere’s when people are most likely to cheat on their partner
A new set of studies just published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences concludes that when we are on the verge of entering a new decade in our chronological age (i.e., when we are...
View ArticleThe psychology of ‘friends with benefits’
Some of my colleagues and I have published a series of studies on friends with benefits (FWBs) over the last few years, which I have written about before on the blog (see here and here).Among the many...
View ArticleI read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' with my boyfriend and it changed our relationship
Let me start by explaining how this happened: My boyfriend, let's call him "Dave," and I are in a long-distance relationship. Therefore, we have to come up with activities that we can do together...
View ArticleScience says people who have more power are more likely to cheat on their...
The research suggests that men are more likely to cheat on their spouses than women. Not only that, they're also more like to "poach" somebody else's mate.But according to a 2011 Dutch study, those...
View ArticleThe 6 basic elements of a thriving relationship
Esther Perel, relationship therapist and author of Mating in Captivity, explains the overlap of innate values we desire in our romantic partners and office colleagues. Produced by Alana Kakoyiannis....
View ArticleHow your eyes give away if you are in love or just lusting
Love may be blind, but a study by University of Chicago researchers has found one unit of measurement that might help us know whether it's love or lust at first sight, and, baby, it's all in the...
View ArticleScience-backed methods to make a long distance relationship work
Today, about 3 million married Americans and as many as half of US college students are in a long-distance relationship— but don't feel too bad for them.Studies show that couples in long-distance...
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